Bridezilla

Hello,
Ok so I haven't been around for a few days but I have been extremely busy with work and such. I was going to come on here and talk about the awesome concert I went to on Saturday but I'll save that for a different day because my goodness I need to get this out.

I have an aunt and in exactly a month she is getting married. I was lucky enough to be part of the wedding and be on of her bridesmaids. For me, everything has been going ok, not too much has been asked of me except to take a few days off here and there and blow up some balloons. Well now that we are getting closer to the wedding, the stress is becoming more extreme and people are fighting. Let me give you a little run down on whats been happening. My Aunt T is mad at my Aunt that is getting married because she wasn't chosen as the maid of honor, messed up I know. My Mom doesn't really care but is still being kind and trying to help with the wedding. My Aunt T is throwing the bridal shower which is this Saturday. This week we got the invitation for my Aunt's barchorlette party. My Mom and Aunt T decided not to do because Saturday is usually their only day off. My sister, who is also a bridesmaid, isn't going. She doesn't know yet but I'm not going either. We all have our reasons why but my Aunt revises to listen. For the last couple days she has been calling my Grandma and crying and screaming that she has to make my Mom and Aunt T go to the party. Each day these phone calls get worst and worst.

Ok so everyone is up to date. Fast forward to today, here I am on roughly two hours of sleep and I come to my Grandma house, a usually Tuesday event. Not even an hour after I get here the phone calls start with her screaming and cry ing to my Grandma on the phone. She is calling my Grandma names and saying that no one cares about her and all that bologna. Finally my Grandma has enough and starts to cry and hangs up. This is where I come into the picture, no one and I mean no one messes with my Grandama, especailly her own daughter. So I decided to take matters into my own hands and when my aunt calls back I basicly tell her to "F" off and goodbye and hang up on her. Was it the wisest thing for me to do? No but it made me and everyone else in my family feel better. I get my Grandma calmed down and then the phone calls start again. She calls about four times without us picking up then deicides to change plans and calls me Aunt T. Long story short, she thinks everyone hates her and all that lovely drama that goes with it.

This problem has yet to be resolved and we have a bridal shower in four days, I'm eager to see how it turns out and trust me I will be back on here to let all you people know how it goes as well. But thanks for listening to my mini rant, it feels really good to let it all out. And for all you brides out there who are reading this and think that I am wrong, I love my Aunt and I would do anything for her, actually I have done a lot for her. I understand that this is consider "your day" and you want it to be special, well it isn't going to be specail with only you, your family is the one that is helping to make it specail and we understand you are stressed but so are we. So when this happens to you my advice is to take a deep breath, grab a beer, and put a smile on your face because you will only make it worst by screaming and yelling.